Blog - Death

Pets in the Afterlife

Posted by Roberta Grimes • February 25, 2015 • 417 Comments

If there is one question I am asked more frequently than any other it is whether our companion animals are waiting for us in the afterlife levels. Some people lead with a personal challenge: “If my dogs can’t be there, I’m not going!” I understand how they feel. A heaven without our animal friends would... Read More

The Importance of Forgiving Yourself

Posted by Roberta Grimes • February 09, 2015 • 9 Comments

After my post on radical forgiveness I heard from people who said their toughest battle was forgiving themselves. Self-forgiveness is hard for many of us, perhaps because those raised in Christianity have been steeped in the pain of our inherent sinfulness. The afterlife evidence has some pretty important news for us on that score! But... Read More

Did Jesus Mean to Start Christianity?

Posted by Roberta Grimes • January 01, 2015 • 35 Comments

This Christmas brought more of the same old battle over whether Jesus was the founder of Christianity. It’s a spurious dispute. The fact that the Apostle Paul and not Jesus was the founder of Christianity seems incontrovertible to me. Jesus died before the religion began. Yes, he sent out his disciples to spread his teachings... Read More

The Atypical Blanquito

Posted by Roberta Grimes • November 11, 2014 • 4 Comments

Two weeks ago I had a wonderful time with Bobby Pickles and his sidekick, Matthew Piazza, doing an interview in freezing weather in a nineteenth-century graveyard near my childhood home.  It was so cold! But I loved being there with my two young friends. And when Bobby told me about his devoted care of his... Read More

Let Them Die

Posted by Roberta Grimes • November 04, 2014 • 0 Comment

A recent article entitled Scientifically, What is the Worst Way to Die? reviews some of the most horrendous forms of death by torture ever devised. Then it concludes that when every aspect is considered, including the intensity and duration of the pain inflicted and the degree of psychological suffering, the very worst possible way to... Read More

Capital Punishment

Posted by Roberta Grimes • October 28, 2014 • 8 Comments

One thing about doing afterlife research and better understanding our greater reality is that what you learn helps you to establish evidence-based opinions on a great many things. At one time, I had little concern about capital punishment. So long as we executed only the guilty, what was the harm? To read of the despicable... Read More

Sex in the Afterlife

Posted by Roberta Grimes • October 21, 2014 • 11 Comments

One of the questions I am asked when I speak about The Fun of Dying and The Fun of Staying in Touch is whether we can have post-death sex. After all, the whole area of sexual relations is so important to our earthly lives. Isn’t it central to who we are?        I think it’s... Read More

Suicide

Posted by Roberta Grimes • August 19, 2014 • 5 Comments

I guest frequently on radio programs, and some recent hosts have ask me to address the suicide of Robin Williams with the hope that I can comfort the many people who love that beautiful man. I love him, too. But I have little comfort to give to radio listeners, and I don’t plan to discuss... Read More

What It’s Like to Witness a Death

Posted by Roberta Grimes • July 29, 2014 • 12 Comments

Having talked last week about how it feels to die, let’s consider now the experience of being at the bedside of someone you love who is about to embark on that universal journey. Of course, some deaths are going to feel tragic. People who die unexpectedly or out of generational order are likely to distress... Read More

How it Feels to Die

Posted by Roberta Grimes • July 22, 2014 • 34 Comments

Every one of us is going to die. Yet our culture offers no real preparation for this universal human experience, and few of us have much understanding of the actual death process. You will be relieved to know that the afterlife evidence overwhelmingly suggests that for most of us a well-conducted death can be the... Read More