Blog - Death

Sex in the Afterlife

Posted by Roberta Grimes • October 21, 2014 • 12 Comments

One of the questions I am asked when I speak about The Fun of Dying and The Fun of Staying in Touch is whether we can have post-death sex. After all, the whole area of sexual relations is so important to our earthly lives. Isn’t it central to who we are?        I think it’s... Read More

Suicide

Posted by Roberta Grimes • August 19, 2014 • 5 Comments

I guest frequently on radio programs, and some recent hosts have ask me to address the suicide of Robin Williams with the hope that I can comfort the many people who love that beautiful man. I love him, too. But I have little comfort to give to radio listeners, and I don’t plan to discuss... Read More

What It’s Like to Witness a Death

Posted by Roberta Grimes • July 29, 2014 • 12 Comments

Having talked last week about how it feels to die, let’s consider now the experience of being at the bedside of someone you love who is about to embark on that universal journey. Of course, some deaths are going to feel tragic. People who die unexpectedly or out of generational order are likely to distress... Read More

How it Feels to Die

Posted by Roberta Grimes • July 22, 2014 • 34 Comments

Every one of us is going to die. Yet our culture offers no real preparation for this universal human experience, and few of us have much understanding of the actual death process. You will be relieved to know that the afterlife evidence overwhelmingly suggests that for most of us a well-conducted death can be the... Read More