Posted by Roberta Grimes • July 08, 2023 • 25 Comments
Jesus
The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want.
He lets me lie down in green pastures.
He leads me beside the still waters. He restores my soul.
He guides me in the paths of righteousness for His name’s sake.
Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,
I fear no evil, for You are with me.
Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me.
You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies.
You anointed my head with oil. My cup overflows.
Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life,
And I shall dwell the house of the Lord forever (Psalm 23:1-6).
– David, Third King of the United Kingdom of Israel (1040 BCE – 970 BCE)
Jesus’s most important Gospel encounter is the tale of His meeting with the woman at the well. It comes as His ministry begins, and it gives us everything that we need to know about Jesus and His mission on earth, if only we can fully understand what we are reading. Jesus is speaking not to a crowd of Jews in a synagogue or on a hill, as later on He often will do. And nor is He sparring with Temple leaders or with clergymen, as He will be doing later. In fact, in this early and very rare case, Jesus is not speaking with men at all. No, Jesus’s earliest and longest Gospel discourse is a private conversation that He initiates with a least member of a despised ethnic minority. And she is, oh my goodness, just a woman to boot! What follows is most of the fourth chapter of the Biblical Gospel of John:
So then, when the Lord knew that the Pharisees had heard that He was making and baptizing more disciples than John 2 (although Jesus Himself was not baptizing; rather, His disciples were), 3 He left Judea and went away again to Galilee. 4 And He had to pass through Samaria. 5 So He came to a city of Samaria called Sychar, near the parcel of land that Jacob gave to his son Joseph; 6 and Jacob’s well was there. So Jesus, tired from His journey, was just sitting by the well. It was about noon. 7 A woman of Samaria came to draw water. Jesus said to her, “Give Me a drink.” 8 For His disciples had gone away to the city to buy food. 9 So the Samaritan woman said to Him, “How is it that You, though You are a Jew, are asking me for a drink, though I am a Samaritan woman?” (For Jews do not associate with Samaritans.) 10 Jesus replied to her, “If you knew the gift of God, and who it is who is saying to you, ‘Give Me a drink,’ you would have asked Him, and He would have given you living water.” 11 She said to Him, “Sir, You have no bucket and the well is deep; where then do You get this living water? 12 You are not greater than our father Jacob, are You, who gave us the well and drank of it himself, and his sons and his cattle?” 13 Jesus answered and said to her, “Everyone who drinks of this water will be thirsty again; 14 but whoever drinks of the water that I will give him shall never be thirsty; but the water that I will give him will become in him a fountain of water springing up to eternal life.”15 The woman said to Him, “Sir, give me this water so that I will not be thirsty, nor come all the way here to draw water.” 16 He said to her, “Go, call your husband and come here.” 17 The woman answered and said to Him, “I have no husband.” Jesus said to her, “You have correctly said, ‘I have no husband’; 18 for you have had five husbands, and the one whom you now have is not your husband; this which you have said is true.” 19 The woman said to Him, “Sir, I perceive that You are a prophet. 20 Our fathers worshiped on this mountain, and yet you Jews say that in Jerusalem is the place where one must worship.” 21 Jesus said to her, “Believe Me, woman, that a time is coming when you will worship the Father neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem. 22 You Samaritans worship what you do not know; we worship what we do know, because salvation is from the Jews. 23 But a time is coming, and even now has arrived, when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth; for such people the Father seeks to be His worshipers. 24 God is spirit, and those who worship Him must worship in spirit and truth.” 25 The woman said to Him, “I know that Messiah is coming (He who is called Christ); when that One comes, He will declare all things to us.” 26 Jesus said to her, “I am He, the One speaking to you.”
27 And at this point His disciples came, and they were amazed that He had been speaking with a woman, yet no one said, “What are You seeking?” or, “Why are You speaking with her?” 28 So the woman left her waterpot and went into the city, and said to the people, 29 “Come, see a man who told me all the things that I have done; this is not the Christ, is He?” 30 They left the city and were coming to Him.
31 Meanwhile the disciples were urging Him, saying, “Rabbi, eat something.” 32 But He said to them, “I have food to eat that you do not know about.” 33 So the disciples were saying to one another, “No one brought Him anything to eat, did he?” 34 Jesus said to them, “My food is to do the will of Him who sent Me, and to accomplish His work. 35 Do you not say, ‘There are still four months, and then comes the harvest’? Behold, I tell you, raise your eyes and observe the fields, that they are ripe for harvest. 36 Already the one who reaps is receiving wages and is gathering fruit for eternal life, so that the one who sows and the one who reaps may rejoice together. 37 For in this case the saying is true: ‘One sows and another reaps.’ 38 I sent you to reap that for which you have not labored; others have labored, and you have come into their labor.”
39 Now from that city many of the Samaritans believed in Him because of the word of the woman who testified, “He told me all the things that I have done.” 40 So when the Samaritans came to Jesus, they were asking Him to stay with them; and He stayed there two days. 41 Many more believed because of His Word; 42 and they were saying to the woman, “It is no longer because of what you said that we believe, for we have heard for ourselves and know that this One truly is the Savior of the world.”
43 And after the two days, He departed from there for Galilee. 44 For Jesus Himself testified that a prophet has no honor in his own country. 45 So when He came to Galilee, the Galileans received Him, only because they had seen all the things that He did in Jerusalem at the feast; for they themselves also went to the feast. (JN 4:1-45).
For those of us now free from the Roman Emperor Constantine’s fear-based Christian dogmas, there is so much richness in this wonderful story! My affection for this tale from the Gospel of John is first rooted in my childhood, when at the age of eight I had an experience of light, and a voice from out of that light assured me that God is real and God will never leave me. After that night, I spent the rest of my childhood attending grownup church and communing with a beautiful stained-glass depiction of Jesus talking with the woman at the well as I listened to Reverend Turrell’s love-filled sermons.
And then came the moment, almost forty years later, when I realized that all my afterlife research and Bible-reading had clashed head-on, and I closed my Bible for the next two years. I could no longer be a Christian, because nothing about the religion was supported by the afterlife evidence. I knew by then that the afterlife is real. But I could not bear to give up on Jesus! So one rainy day, very gingerly, I sat down and read just the four Biblical Gospels. And in reading just the Gospels, I could find no place where the words of Jesus were inconsistent with what I knew to be true about the afterlife.
Then I came to the Fourth Chapter of John. You really can read all four Biblical Gospels in one long sitting! Jesus was speaking with the woman at the well, and I was starting to relax. Christianity’s dogmas about sin and hell and the sacrificial redemption of humankind by Jesus and all the other religious nonsense that Constantine crammed into his Roman Christianity at First Nicaea in the year 325 CE do not jibe at all with the afterlife evidence! But at least Jesus’s Gospel teachings can live with the afterlife evidence just fine. So then Jesus said to the woman at the well, “If you knew the gift of God, and who it is who is saying to you, ‘Give Me a drink,’ you would have asked Him, and He would have given you living water” (JN 4:10). And I about fell off my chair! One of the big things about the afterlife is that the water there is alive. It looks like water but it feels like silk, it is dry to the touch and rich in energy, and you can walk into it fully clothed and come out of it dry and energized. And Jesus knew all about the living water in the afterlife. Please read Chapter 4 of John again, with Jesus’s true purpose in coming t0 earth as He described it to us on April 6, 2022, fresh in your mind. And you will realize that what Jesus actually is telling the woman at the well is that He is going to teach her how to get to where the living water actually is. He is going to teach her how to grow and perfect herself spiritually. That is what He has come to earth to do! And once she has done that, she will never be thirsty again because once she is a spiritually elevated being, she can just walk into that living water in the afterlife and be refreshed. Having heard what Jesus told us last April 6th, everything that He says to the woman at the well in Chapter 4 of the Biblical Gospel of John makes complete sense to us now!
This story is a beautiful time capsule message for us from Jesus given at the start of His ministry. It feels like His wink given to us across time for each one of us, from long before what was eventually going to become a very far off-track and sure to eventually dead-end Roman Christian religion. It is as if Jesus is reassuring you and me from before any of the past seventeen hundred years even happens. He is gently saying to us now, “Please don’t worry, My dear ones. Because I have got this for you. All is well!” But what else is He actually saying to us here? What are all the signs and symbols for us in the Gospel of John, Chapter 4? Well, let’s just see:
Jesus’s remark that a prophet has no honor in his own country (at JN 4:44) is something that He knows from a very recent experience. In the Gospel of Luke, Chapter 4:16-24, we see Jesus reading from the scroll of Isaiah on a Sabbath morning in the Synagogue in His hometown of Nazareth just before He begins this journey that is described in the Gospel of John, Chapter 4. The Gospel of Luke says that Jesus was feeling full of the Spirit as He stood up and read,
“The Spirit of the Lord is upon Me,
Because He anointed Me to bring good news to the poor.
He has sent Me to proclaim release to captives,
And recovery of sight to the blind,
To set free those who are oppressed,
To proclaim the favorable year of the Lord.”
Then Jesus handed back the scroll to the attendant as He said, “Today this Scripture has been fulfilled in your hearing” (LK 4:21). And in the increasingly tense back-and-forth that followed between Jesus and some of His erstwhile neighbors, they became so enraged at His seeming presumptuousness that they tried to throw Him off a nearby cliff.
But Jesus was very clear from the start of His ministry about precisely what His true mission was! There is nothing in what He says to the woman at the well of any fear-based dogmas, judgment by God or a fiery hell, nothing about His future crucifixion or sacrificial redemption, or any reason at all for any of us ever to worry or to feel afraid. In that whole rich and beautiful conversation by the well, none of the dogmas of the Christian religion that the Roman Emperor Constantine invented more than three hundred years later are anywhere to be found.
Before last April I had figured some of this out. But once Jesus then gave us His human backstory last April, and I re-read this tale from the Gospel of John freshly with what Jesus had told us then in mind, I realized to my wonderment that really nothing more ever needs to be said! The whole of Jesus’s true earthly mission before Constantine ever messed with it is beautifully encapsulated in verses 1-45 of the Fourth Chapter of John’s Gospel. Jesus revealed His entire earthly mission to the very least of these right at the start of His ministry when He told it all to that humble Samaritan woman at the well. And someone in my childhood church has just kindly sent me to share with you a photo of that stained-glass window. So now it heads this blog post….
“The Spirit of the Lord God is upon Me,
Because the Lord anointed Me
To bring good news to the humble;
He has sent Me to bind up the brokenhearted,
To proclaim release to captives
And freedom to prisoners;
To proclaim the favorable year of the Lord” (Isaiah 61:1-2).
– Jesus, reading in the Synagogue in Nazareth on the Sabbath (LK 4:18-19)
I’ve been studying the Bible for only four years now. I mean really studying. There’s still alot I don’t understand. We’ve been through Covid, I’ve been home with a medical problem. Point being what I’m learning is not in church because I can’t leave the house.
Oh my dear Amy, please understand that the Bible is not a book, but really it’s a library, and it was written over a couple of thousand years by many different people! Most of it is the Old Testament, what the Jews of Jesus’s day called the Law and the Prophets. And this part is outmoded, frankly. Then come the four Gospel books, which are the only part of the Bible that contain the teachings of Jesus.Then the book of the Acts of the Apostles. then most of the rest of the Bible is Paul’s letters to various early churches. Frankly, if you read and become very familiar with the Gospels, you will be doing well!
This is the third time in two weeks the scripture about the woman at the well has been presented to me. I believe spirit has been trying to tell me something. Until your post today I didn’t understand what the “living water” Jesus was talking about actually meant. Thank you for making it clear to me. I eagerly wait for your emails every Sunday. Thank you.
My dear Dean, as you can see, the woman at the well has been confronting me too, and for my entire life, and I never realized why until now! But it does make sense, doesn’t it, that Jesus would lay out for us His whole mission neatly this way at the start of His ministry? I just wish that I had seen it all sooner!
Hallelujah. Thank you for sharing Jesus Words in this unfettered way. I love that all one needs to do is drop the dogma and listen with an open mind. So easy to do when we Know His Words are wholeness and alive for us today, The living Word is so refreshing.
So true, my sweet Carol, and so simple! Sometimes it astonishes me as I read the words of Jesus to realize how simple and how modern-seeming and how gently loving He sounds. It was all those who came along much later who make His words begin to sound both scary and complicated!
Roberta,
Thank you for explaining The Woman at the well. I had tears in my eyes of joy that I am finally understanding what Jesus came here to teach us. I used to hear the “woman at the well” story all the time being read as a sermon. I wonder didn’t our priest know what the true meaning was? How could they read this from the bible and then just before holy communion ask us “with the fear and love draw near”
I guess they wanted us to be blind followers for the sake of money. After I learned the truth from your books and now with Jesus speaking directly too you,
I would get so angry and want to challenge all religions. Until one day I heard this in my mind “forgive them they know not what they do” I have since let everything go. No more debates as I have learned from you Jesus would not argue with them.
I think its better to show forgiveness and love and pray that the people of all religions wake up to Jesus’s message
Oh my dear Litsa yes, so perfectly said! Now I always think of our darling Jesus, working endlessly and without complaint for all those seventeen hundred earth-years to heal the victims of Roman Christianity, while meanwhile He grew spiritually to such an extent that His powers are even above the Godhead level now. Our sweet Jesus! Who asks only that we try to better learn how to love.
“The Woman at the well” was one of my favorite scenes in the Chosen.
There seemed to be a lot of demons being exercised in that series. Is that something that is common?
I’m also fascinated with the idea of Jesus and the apostles healing others. Would it only work if the person they were healing had faith? If so, then I am assuming the person wanting to be healed could have healed themselves had they believed that they could.
Thanks Roberta, appreciate all you, Thomas, Jesus and our soul guides do for us as we navigate this whacky world.
Yes, my dear Thomas, Jesus was dealing with demons and various nasties all the time in the Gospels, and He generally first asked the person being healed if he believed that Jesus could do this. He was joining His powers to those of the person being healed, and in fact I don’t believe that He attempted a healing otherwise. So, as you say, perhaps these people could have healed themselves, without Jesus. But on thee other hand, He was the whole engine and motor and source of their faith!
Hi Thomas,
I was going to mention the “Chosen” episode of the Woman at the Well. I love that show, but, I can still feel a tad bit of the religious Jesus.
Anyways, I enjoy reading Roberta’ s blogs.
Litsa
Hi Litsa,
It is a great show. I didn’t get any religious vibes from the show besides Jesus pushing against religious norms. I might have missed some things, though.
For me, the show discussed many of the same topics that Roberta and Thomas had written about. Jesus being a rebel first and foremost. Breaking religious taboo’s and pushing back against the people in charge. Can’t help but admire and love the guy even more seeing him stick up for the people that was cast aside.
That is what made me suspect Jesus had a hand in the making of the series. We know he has been working hard in the background and I would be surprised if he wasn’t involved.
The show felt truthful to me.
Hi Thomas,
I do really love the show and I think the part that made me feel like it had religious under tones was when Nicodemus met with Jesus and Jesus explaining the “Born Again” stuff to him…
I could be wrong though!!!! And it is just my interpretation but, I really love the show and I have a Jonathan Roumie wall paper app on my phone…The one that says “you, yes you, follow me”! LOL
My favorite episode is the wedding in Cana where Jesus is dancing and having fun and joking with his disciples! We see Jesus exactly the way Roberta has described him.
I also love the episodes where the children hang out with him…Many episodes are great!!
Litsa
Absolutely Litsa!
The series showed Jesus was really one of us and not some deity that died for our sins. And he was great at making very tasty wine. I’d would have followed Jesus just for the wine tasting.
Thomas
Thomas Quote: I’d would have followed Jesus just for the wine tasting.
LOL, I hear you and his message truly would of made me be one of his disciples. The good news is we still can be in this day an age.
Litsa
My dear Thomas, I am told that Jesus did influence the minds of those making the series, but to influence is not actually to control.
My dear, I never watch TV, although my family does, and I have wondered about “The Chosen.” I think I would probably sniff out its errors and gripe about them; but I’m told that Jesus has had a hand in it, and I don’t second-guess what He does.
Hi everyone..
I miss you guys but I have been grumpy .
Don’t have any great insights
My guy is out of town and I’m lonely
But I wanted to say hey Erica
Hi Erica,
I’m not much of an insightful person, but I have read some insightful posts.
“Why can’t a leopard hide? Because he’s always spotted.”
“How can you tell it’s a dogwood tree? From the bark.”
“Why are pigs so bad at sports? Because they always hog the ball.”
“I used to hate facial hair, but then it grew on me.”
“What do you call it when Batman skips church? Christian Bale.”
“I’m afraid of the calendar. Its days are numbered.”
Oh my goodness, Thomas! Thanks for that – you gave us all a giggle in this house 🙂
My dear Erica, you? Grumpy? I cannot conceive of it! We love you, precious friend!
Thanks Thomas!
Made me smile
Thanks again,
Erica
I have nothing to add but as always, Robert’s blog and everyone’s comments here brighten my day!
Much love to you all,
JenniferK
Dear Roberta I would appreciate some advice? I found out my husband has a checking account with another woman’s name on it! We have been married for almost50 years ! Not only that but he has property with different woman’s name on the property! I love my house and don’t really wish to leave it! I live in Wisconsin and have my grandchildren next door! This is causing me so much anxiety! I heard him tell the lady with the checkbook she can use his funds ! I don’t even get to use them except a small monthly allowance and I know he has a lot in that checkbook! Please help me at this age I don’t wish to divorce? Please help! I love your posts! Thank Jesus for me!
Oh my dear Linda, I know that you don’t wish to divorce, but your husband has given you no choice in this matter. You should consult a competent family law attorney immediately! You have got to protect your property rights first of all, and then confront your husband and propose counseling to see whether you might be able to save your marriage. Best wishes to you, dear, and I am sending you a great big hug!